Being Camera Ready

 In general, I find there are two types of people when it comes to getting their pictures taken. There are those people that are simply natural at taking photos. We all know these people they are our photogenic friends that can’t take a bad photo. Many times I find it difficult to get candid photos of these people because they track the camera, and as soon as I go to shoot they look and smile. Then there are the normal people that don’t know their angles, aren’t used to taking photos. I always suggest that these people book an engagement session. Only because if you’re not used to getting your picture taken you might not know what your angles and you might be doing wrong. If a photographer gets the opportunity to photograph you before your big day they will know how to photograph you before your event. I always say engagement sessions aren’t for engagement photos, there for the wedding photos. 



 

Camera Distortion

We’ve all had our picture taken and thought I look fat….

When I think of camera distortion I take into account two things my lens and posing. Some lenses can make you look tall and skinny and others make you look short and fat. A good photographer will know which lenses are appropriate to use.
Posing is a little tricky… My basic rule of thumb is whatever is close to the camera looks bigger. That being said if you hate the way your arms look you want to pull them back, so they look smaller.
Here is a video that will go more in depth into posing.

Advice for the Moms

 

Finding the right dress can be difficult especially for the mothers of the bride and groom.  Often times The Moms are as much a part of the as the bride and groom and it’s important to find the right dress. I find that most moms find it comforting to bring someone with them to help find a dress. Below are a couple examples of the dress I see most often. This style comes in lots of colors, so you can find colors that both complement you and match the wedding theme. One thing that’s really nice about this dress is it comes with a matching jacket. I find that most of my moms are self-conscious when it comes to their arms.
*Since this is the Brides day… Don’t wear a dress that is any shade of white. While the Bride might not care, you don’t want guests to get the wrong impression. 

Woohoo Party!

Sometimes trying to decide if you’re going to do an open bar for your wedding is more than simply “can we afford to pick up the bar tab at the end of the night?” There are reasons to do an open bar and there are reasons not to. Sometimes if your crowd is a little more reserved having an open bar can mean the difference between having a fun wedding vs. a boring one. On the other hand, if your guests are heavy drinkers it could mean the difference between a drunken slosh feast and a beautiful wedding. One thing I suggest is not to serve drinks until the cocktail hour. I’ve been to a couple wedding where they served drink before the ceremony and you could here glasses clanking during the ceremony. Plus it starts people drinking earlier, which means they get tipsy earlier and leave your reception early. These are suggestions that people don’t usually consider when planning their wedding but I’ve been to several weddings where people drank too much. If it were me I’d do a full bar during cocktail hour, beer/wine during the reception and a cash bar for those that want their cocktails. 

How many photos do you take?

When someone asks me “how many pictures do you take?” I reply as many as I can. In general after the event, I will narrow the images down to about 1000. During a wedding, I try and capture everything from several different angles. I know a lot of photographers try and limit the number of photos they take so they have to do less editing after the event. In my opinion, it’s more important to capture the event. I typically overshoot, because there is nothing worse than not capturing a moment. I also don’t know what my clients will deem important. One client may want lots of detail shots, while another may find guest photos to be more important. I overshoot so I can sleep at night knowing that I’ve got it all covered. 

Support from an Insider

 

Whenever a bride complains to me about her family or bridal party. I always say weddings are emotional for a lot of people. Weddings symbolize the beginning of a new family. Moms and dads hand over their little girls and boys to another man or woman. Couples say goodbye to their best friends and join with their soul mates. Lil flower girls look up to the brides and want to be them some day. Grandparents get to see their lives come full circle. The singles wonder when they’ll meet their soul mate and often times couples recommit to each other, At the end of the day a bride needs to make herself happy and not worry about everyone else. 

My work flow

Many times people think a wedding photographer simply shows up at a location, shoot for a couple hours, burn a disk and the jobs done; which is far from the truth. No matter how big or small the event is this is what is involved.

The day before every wedding I spend a lot of time getting prepared. I always start by charging batteries, which is a process that takes most of the day.  Then I go through all my gear cleaning, testing, syncing camera times and formatting cards. I pack up all my gear.  I also review timelines, shot-lists and locations. I plan my gear and my shots around the location and the timeline.  What I bring for an indoor wedding, is very different from an outdoor location.  Finally, I map all locations, and layout my clothes.  One the day of, the only thing I want to think about is getting all those amazing shots. Getting prepared to shoot a wedding takes up most of the day before the wedding.
On the day of I run around for hours with 40 pounds of gear strapped to me in order to capture all those memories. A groom once called me a ninja, I wear all black, I sneak around and I draw cameras like weapons.
After the wedding, I download everything online in case of a fire, on 2 external hard drives one to back up the other, two computers, all the cf cards don’t get reformat until images are done being edited and burned to discs in case the hard drive fails. Archiving your memories is just as important as capturing them.  I’ve actually had several brides loose their images and come back to me year after their wedding and I was able to send them new discs.
On a typical wedding, I shoot about 3,000 images per event. I probably go through each event about 5x.  The first time I go through an event I edit out the obvious bad images. The second time I check focus. The third time I color correct each image individually. The fourth time I get rid of all unnecessary images (I tend to overshoot and edit later) finally I double-check my color corrections. I upload the proofs to an online gallery and release the gallery to my clients. Typically I give my clients 800-1000 proofs to go through. After my clients pick their final proofs I recheck their final selects and export them as high-res jpegs, burn a disk, package everything, and mail it out.
Each event/wedding is actually days of work.

Painless Formals

 As a wedding photographer, the hardest part of my day is getting people together for formal photographs. My goal is to get it done as quickly as possible which is why I do some planning ahead of the event as far as timeline and lighting and I use a formal shot list.

Traditional formal photographs have always been taken during cocktail hour.  The problem is we generally start with family formals and then go on to taking photographs of the bride and groom. Many times I find family members would rather be at cocktail hour then taking photographs. So a lot of time is wasted trying to track down family members in the area where cocktail hour is happening which leaves me only a little time with the bride and groom.
What I’ve started to do with my couples is to do a first look and the photos of the couple and finally family formals all before the ceremony. Which leaves us with lots of options as far as the timeline.
Option 1 – If timing runs on schedule the brides is ready, we do the first look, formals of the couple and family formal. Ceremony starts and the couple is free to enjoy their cocktail hour and I do mostly candids for the rest of the evening.
Option 2 – If the bride runs a little late getting ready, we do the first look and then just family formals. During the ceremony, we can do photos of the new couple and hopefully the couple can catch the last part of their cocktail hour.
When you do the formals before the ceremony you don’t have to deal with the distraction of cocktail hour, and couples get the opportunity to go to their cocktail hour. It also helps with the flow of the day.
The reason I do a formal shot list is because it gets my couples thinking about who they want to get photos with before their wedding day, so we’re not left trying to do it on-the-fly the day of. Also, it organizes the all the shots. In general, I start with members of the family that are handy-capped, then I go to the photos that have the biggest group or those who are present. Then I narrow the groups down and check of all the photos that the bride requested.
Many photographers don’t even bother with a formal shot list because they don’t want the liability. I beg my clients to fill it out, it saves us so much stress the day of. Many times my brides don’t want to fill it out and they end up not getting all the people in the formals that they want. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve sent the shot list to a bride, they don’t fill it out and after the event, they make a comment about how they wished they got a photo with so and so. As a photographer who works so hard to make my clients over joyed and happy it really bums me out but it not my fault.

Wedding Rings

For the most part a wedding band is worn on the left had. Many times brides will walk down the asile wearing their engagement ring on their right hand and then after their ceremony they put the engagement band on their left hand with their wedding band going on first.

My heritage is mostly Irish so I found this interesting to read about the Claddagh wedding band.
“The Claddagh has two hands clasping a heart, and the hands are usually holding a crown. The elements of this symbol are often said to correspond to the qualities of love (the heart), friendship (the hands), and loyalty (the crown).
The way that a Claddagh ring is worn on the hand is usually intended to convey the wearer’s romantic availability, or lack thereof.
Traditionally, if the ring is on the right hand with the heart facing outward and away from the body, this indicates that the person wearing the ring is not in any serious relationship, and may in fact be single and looking for a relationship: “their heart is open.”
When worn on the right hand but with the heart facing inward toward the body, this indicates the person wearing the ring is in a relationship, or that “someone has captured their heart”.
A Claddagh worn on the left-hand ring finger facing outward away from the body generally indicates that the wearer is engaged.
When the ring is on the left-hand ring finger and facing inward toward the body, it generally means that the person wearing the ring is married.” [1]
*If my boy friend is reading this you don’t get to buy me just one ring!
CLADDAGH RING ORIGIN
“There are a variety of legends about the origins of the ring. One tale is about Margareth Joyce, a woman of the Joyce clan. She married a Spanish merchant named Domingo de Rona. She went with him to Spain, but he died and left her a large sum of money. She returned to Ireland and, in 1596, married Oliver Ogffrench, the mayor of Galway. With the money she inherited from her first marriage, she funded the construction of bridges in Connacht. All this out of charity, so one day an eagle dropped the Claddagh ring into her lap, as a reward.
Another story tells of a Prince who fell in love with a common maid. To convince her father his feelings were genuine and he had no intentions of “using” the girl, he designed a ring with hands representing friendship, a crown representing loyalty, and a heart representing love. He proposed to the maid with this ring, and after the father heard the explanation of the symbolism of the ring, he gave his blessing.
One legend that may be closer to historical truth is of a man named Richard Joyce, another member of the Joyce clan and a native of Galway. He left his town to work in the West Indies, intending to marry his love when he returned. However his ship was captured and he was sold as a slave to a Moorish goldsmith. In Algiers, with his new master, he was trained in his craft. When William III became king, he demanded the Moors release all British prisoners. As a result, Richard Joyce was set free. The goldsmith had such a great amount of respect for Richard Joyce that he offered Joyce his daughter and half his wealth if Joyce stayed, but he denied his offer and returned home to marry his love who awaited his return. During his time with the Moors he forged a ring as a symbol of his love for her. Upon his return he presented her with the ring and they were married.” [2]
Misty fables surrounds one of Ireland’s unique treasures, “The Claddagh” a symbol of Love, Friendship and loyalty.
Some 400 years ago in a fishing village called Claddagh overlooking Galway Bay, close to the city of the Tribes, lived Richard Joyce a Master Goldsmith. It was he who crafted this now famous design that has become part of the IRISH heritage.
The Claddagh Ring belongs to a widespread group of finger rings called Fede or “Faith rings” which date from Roman times. They are distinguished by having the bezel cut or cast in the form of two clasped hands, symbolizing faith, trust or “plighted troth”. Fede rings were popular in the Middle Ages throughout Europe, and there are examples from this time in the National Museum of Ireland, Kildare Street, and Dublin. The “Claddagh” ring is a particularly distinctive ring; two hands clasp a heart surmounted by a crown.
The ring worn on the right hand, crown turned inward tells your heart is yet unoccupied, worn with the crown turned outwards reveals love is being considered. Worn on the left hand the crown turned outward shows all, your heart is truly spoken for.
W. Dillon in his publication on “The Claddagh Ring” in the Galway Archaeological Society Journal, Vol. IV, 1905-6, defines the limits over which the ring is worn as roughly from the Aran Islands on the West, and through all Connemara and Joyce Country to Galway, and then eastward and southward for not more than 12 miles at most. The whole district is the one served by fisher folk of the Claddagh village just outside the city of Galway, but became known as the Claddagh ring probably because of the proximity to the city of the large Claddagh fishing community using the ring alone.
Huge numbers of Claddagh rings were left with a Mr. Kirwan following the Great Famine 1846/7 which finally had to be consigned to the melting pot as there was nobody to redeem or purchase them, hence the difficulty in ascertaining their origin.
Dillon describes some early rings, one with a mitre-like crown, rings made from coins, an analogous ring from Brittany, a “Munster” ring, also Spanish rings with some similarities. He tells us that the Claddagh ring was the only ring ever made in Ireland worn by Queen Victoria and later by Queen Alexandra and King Edward VII. Their rings were made by Dillon’s of Galway, established in 1750, to whom the Royal Patent was granted and the tradition has been carried on at Dillons to this day. Prince Rainier and Princess Grace of Monaco in 1962 were presented with gifts embodying the Claddagh ring motif set in Connemara marble.
In 1984 when Galway celebrated its Quincentennial as a Mayoral City, the people of Galway presented a specially commissioned 18-carat gold Claddagh ring to President Ronald Reagan.
The earliest examples of Claddagh rings that can be dated are stamped with RI, the mark of Richard Joyce, a goldsmith working in Galway circa 1689-1737, of the Joyce Tribe, one of the renowned “Fourteen Tribes of Galway”. According to Dr. Kurt Ticker in “The Claddagh Ring – A West of Ireland Folklore Custom” (1980) interest in Claddagh rings became dormant after Richard Joyce ended his manufacturing career in the 1730s, and it was revived a generation or more later, probably by George Robinson (Dillon in fact had attributed the earliest ring to Robinson). From then on a number of Galway goldsmiths and jewelers of Galway made Claddagh rings. Their early manufacture was by cattle-bone mold casting, then the “lost wax” process up to the 1840s, when manufacture became commercialized.
Some Marks on Claddagh Rings from the latter part of the 17th to the early part of the 18th century.
CLADDAGH JEWELERS AND THEIR MARKS
MARK
JEWELER
RI
RICHARD JOYCE, GALWAY
GR
GEORGE ROBINSON, GALWAY
AR
ANDREW ROBINSON, GALWAY
NB
NICHOLAS BURDGE, GALWAY
F
AUSTIN FRENCH, GALWAY
JD RD WD
DILLON
JS
JOHN SHADWELL
TH
unknown
The Origins of the Claddagh Ring even yet remains a matter for conjecture, both popular stories of its origins attribute it to the Joyce family of Galway City. The two stories are as follows.
The first story says that a Margaret Joyce married Domingo de Rona, a wealthy Spanish merchant who traded with Galway. They proceeded to Spain, where he died, leaving her a considerable fortune. Returning to Galway she used her fortune to build bridges from Galway to Sligo, and re-married Oliver Og French, Major of Galway 1596/7. She was rewarded for her good works and charity by an eagle that dropped the original Claddagh ring into her lap. 

The second story says that Algerian corsairs, sold to a Moorish goldsmith who trained him in the craft, captured a Richard Joyce of Galway. In 1689 he was released from slavery as a result of a demand from King William III. The Moor offered him his only daughter in marriage and half his wealth, if he would remain in Algiers, but Joyce declined and returned home. He brought with him the idea of the Claddagh ring. The earliest Claddagh rings to be traced bear his mark and the initial letters of his name, RI (Richard Joyce).
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She said Yes!

Brian not my boyfriend but another Brian called me the other day and told me he was going to ask his girlfriend Laura to marry him. Since Laura does public relations for photographers he knew that he had to hire a professional to capture the proposal. He came up with the idea to drag Laura down to the beach below Terrene in Palos Verdes for (fake) “sunrise yoga.” Brian and I met and we decided that I would bring a yoga mat lay it out and when the couple arrived I would tell them that I was taking photos for the instructor’s website.
I got to the beach about 15 min before the couple did. I spent the whole time worried about how I was going to lie to this girl. I seriously can’t lie, so it was hard for me to pass the whole thing off. I was actually practicing to answer the questions she might ask me about the class. I even practiced telling her that it was my first time to class so I really know nothing.
Here are a few tips for the guys planning to ask their girls.
–      Keep in mind time of day for lighting purposes
–      Location and People
–      Try and think of a plan that would make her dress in a way that would be flattering if caught on film
–      Try and get her to do her makeup and hair.
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*Girls hate having their pictures taken without their hair and makeup being done.